Slept with the niece of my boss after his wedding

(new anonymous account). Met her at his wedding, we were both wasted, hormones did what hormones do. Took her to my hotel room and got going w/ some bad drunk sex. So bad in fact, she asked me to stop halfway through (how sad) and walk her to her hotel. Thanks for nothing?

-Her during the walk: "you're not going to tell [boss' first name] are you?"
-Me: "Are you kidding, OF COURSE NOT"
-Her: "Me neither..." (maybe it's just me but it definitely didn't sound very confident)
-Small talk to fill the awkward silence ensued.

I'm a little nervous she might saying something.... especially if she's of the mindset of "All drunk sex is rape".

OR one of the people that saw us leave may say something, who knows. Before we went to my hotel, people saw us hanging out at the wedding reception and I believe a few people may have seen us leave together, but no idea who they were.

Should I be concerned? I have her phone #, should I say anything to her? Or just leave it be. This all happened pretty recently.

I would say thanks in advance for your feedback but who knows what the peanut gallery of WSO will say...

 

if she lives close by and is hot, it couldnt hurt asking her out for a drink, but if shes out of town, maybe just shoot her a text, give some closure, and say if shes ever in town again to let you know. I mean, I think it'd be hard to try to fuck you over here, she asked you to stop and you did. that's actually the opposite of forced sex

 

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